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writes:i need seriouse advise. i have been dating this guy for 1 year now and it has trully been an emotional roller coaster, he foudn me at my weakest point and some how i feel in love with him, which surprised me. im tired of not being able to be "official" we haven made our relationship "official" ..every time i bring it up about being ina relationship he tells me what he always says.."i dont wanna fall n love" ...or i dont wanna be tide down" ...basically im putting my self in a place where is really hard for me to understand where this relationship is going..he makes me happy we act like we are boyfriend and girlfriend i know his family and my family know him but we just dont have that tittle...he tells me he loves and cares for me but he doesnt want to be committed..i dont know what to do i tried everything..i think?? help? Reply to this Question
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (25 March 2009):
 Go read the book "He's just not into you" it'll make sense. I'm not saying you're not a wonderful person. Of course you are, but he's holding on to you but waiting for someone better to come along. that is why he is not committing
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i dont think he is using me in a sence that im not good enough for him and its just the sex...im a great woman and i know alot of men would love to have me by their side...and its been a year so if he wanted to leave me we would of done that along time ago..our relationship is great we get along fine we argue like every couple would..we spend alot of time together we do alot of things together...i just dont know..
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (21 March 2009):
He's keeping you around until he finds someone better.
He's not into you. Move on.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (20 March 2009):
 Find someone else! I wouldn't be happy with this either! If he doesn't want to be commited to you then he's not worth the fuss. Give him an ultimatum and if he can't cope with titles then dump him and move on! Xxx
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