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writes:I'm 17 live in Newcastle. I went to Turkey in September 08, had a wicked time and met a lot of boys but there's this one boy hit it off the first night, he gave me a rose and it started from there, and there was passion of course and we still chat now and then but it's been a while and I can't stop thinking about him. I am going back this year but should I meet him? Is he just using me for you know what? but he is very sweet please help xx Reply to this Question
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reader, Alara +, writes (25 November 2012):
yeh they really are
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reader, Jerry931  +, writes (28 December 2010):
Hello everyone! :) I am 17 years old from Bulgaria. I have the same problem like you. Two consecutive years I went to Turkey in the same hotel. At first sight I fall in love with one of the animators there. He was 20 years old and married, but I didn't know that, despite the fact he was wearing a gold ring on his finger! Last year I was at the same hotel and saw him again, when I asked him if he has a girlfriend, he answered me he doesn't, bec he was divorced. He told me that he likes me and when I went back to Bulgaria, we started chatting almost every day and he always tells me that he loves me very much and so on. But now he has a girlfriend, but he claims that he wants marry me when I'm 18+. What should I do? Thanks.
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reader, Jerry931 +, writes (28 December 2010):
Hello everyone! :) I am 17 years old from Bulgaria. I have the same problem like you. Two consecutive years I went to Turkey in the same hotel. At first sight I fall in love with one of the animators there. He was 20 years old and married, but I didn't know that, despite the fact he was wearing a gold ring on his finger! Last year I was at the same hotel and saw him again, when I asked him if he has a girlfriend, he answered me he doesn't, bec he was divorced. He told me that he likes me and when I went back to Bulgaria, we started chatting almost every day and he always tells me that he loves me very much and so on. But now he has a girlfriend, but he claims that he wants marry me when I'm 18+. What should I do? Thanks.
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reader, pandah +, writes (11 June 2010):
im fourteen this year,i went to Turkey for a week in september last year and became really close with the barman.. kissed told eachother we loved eachother everything like that, cried my eyes out when i was coming home thinking he was my world. Only to sign in on facebook and speak to about 5 of his ''Girlfriends'', i went back to Turkey last week and met up with the boy who is by the way 18.. he still thinks he loves me which is in my oppinion a load of bull!. anyways i stayed back at the same hotel and ive met a really sweet boy whos sixteen and i really dont think hes playing me, we both cried when i left and there were loads of pretty girls staying in the hotel at the time but not once did he look at them and smile! .. he made me feel really important to him.. whether its true love or not i dont know but one thing for sure i will never forget him! - i dont know if ive helped you or not but hopefully you get where im coming from?:) xxx
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reader, Meep! +, writes (20 March 2009):
I have Turkish family, and we visit them most years. With these frequent trips, I've made friends with a lot of the locals, and I'm afraid that from a bystander's viewpoint, they really are all out for one thing - even though they might be some of the loveliest people you could meet.
There's one guy in particular who I'm really great friends with - he's late twenties and literally like a brother - I talk to him all the time, and he confides everything to me. Lovely though he is (I would trust him with my life), he's a prime example of a 'typical' Turkish man. He will get an english 'girlfriend', and then as soon as she goes home, it'll be onto another. He doesnt think anything of it, and this is a normal state of affairs for these men. Don't believe your special to them, because 99 times out of 100, you're not.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (20 March 2009):
 Yes they are all the same!
My sister got into a relationship with a Turkish guy found out that he had slept with LOTS of English girls every time she came home and when she dumped him, his family sent her death threats! (she still won't tell me all the details as I have a platoon of soldiers on standby for him!)
Be Very cautious of these holiday romances, Turkish men are very charming but will try and get as many girls as they can, also they have no concept of STIs, don't care if you get pregnant.
Turkey is a middle eastern (mostly Islamic) country the women there dress a lot more modestly than us tourists, therefore when a Turkish boy sees the little blonde girls wearing next to nothing they assume you are easy (Like a British guy would if he saw a girl dressed as a Lap dancer in the Norfolk Broads)
So they try it on with all there charm and BANG, British girls aren't used to guys coming up to them and being charming so "fall in love." The Turks do this every couple of weeks, and THOUSANDS of English girls come home with STIs every year!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009): I suspect he has a string of girls each year , but only you can know if he is playing you... (i don't know him from your description lol)
remember holidays are romantic places where we leave our troubles far behind us. (in theory).... so when we come back to normal life they sit in our head as being paradise.
Star.x.
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