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How to handle obsessive crush!

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Question - (20 March 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2009)
A female Australia age , anonymous writes:

i really really like this guy whose a year older than me, we are both in high school and flirt sometimes but he doesnt sit with my group so i dont see him too much. im like obsessed with him, i take extra trips to the toilet so i can walk past him, i rush out of class as soon as the bell goes to see him, hes like ALWAYS on my mind! i like him soo much its really distracting i just cant stop thinking about him! i need help! thx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

Hi there, Im not in school any longer however how do i say that when i was in school i had the same feelings for this guy a year older then me and i did the same silly things. when you out of school you will soon realise that its not worth it because i no longer have any feelings for that guy

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

why not talk to him? ask him for a coffee or what ever you guys drink....

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A female reader, bOy CrAzY;} United States +, writes (20 March 2009):

Okay hon I had the exact same problem!!! Through out this whole year he was always on my mind but u know what u get over it and that might be the safest part but u do cause u get tired of waiting! But unless he really and if he really likes u then he will ask u but untill either one of those things happen u kind of stuck. Sorry that's all the advice I can give now!;). Good luck

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A male reader, Answerthis South Africa +, writes (20 March 2009):

Try not to place him on a pedestal. Doing so will only make it harder for you to engage him as an equal. Seeing him just the same as any other guy, will enable you to tell him how you feel (which is what you ultimately have to do) without acting weird or funny (which you don't want)... Hope this makes sense/helps...

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A male reader, Answerthis South Africa +, writes (20 March 2009):

Try not to place him on a pedestal. This will only make it harder for you to engage him as an equal. Seeing him as just another guy will make it easier for you to actually tell him how you feel (which is what you must ultimately do) without acting weird or funny (which you don't want to do). Hope that makes sense/helps...

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