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writes:ok here goes...ive been seing this guy for about 2 months...and he messaged me yesterday saying that the two people that he lives with are moving out...and told him that they'll speak to the landlord to see if he can have the lease but all of a sudden are being really awkward and he doesn't know what to do!He has no family over here most of them are in Melbourne Australia, and he cant think of anyone...all he needs is a place to tie him over until he saves enough to get his owm place.I just need help with...how the hell do i show him that i really care and am here for him?? I've given him advice and yes we talk constantly through out the day but he's just so stressed and upset. I don't know if im giving him enough support?...what can i do? or is there enough i can do?..i am trying to help find him a place and hopefully have but is that enough??thank you very much :) Reply to this Question
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reader, growing  +, writes (7 May 2008):
 You really love him and are very much concerned about him.But sweetie you actually can't jump into the field to sought out his problem .so the behaviour that is expected from you should be met.from your post i believe that you are giving him unshakable support .just love him and try if you can somehow talk to your parents about this,you can introduce him as your frd,if possible.
Am not sure if am making sense with this point. But just love him the way you do.
God is there to help each one of us.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (7 May 2008):
As long as you let him rant his problems at you and help him look for new places then you should be fine.
His problems shouldn't impact your relationship. If they do then it's his problem not yours.
Be his shoulder to cry on and help with everything you can and you are being a great girlfriend.
Good Luck!! xx
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