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writes:dear cupid, ive been kinda seeing this lad on and off for the past 7 months, but my mum doesn't like him because he has a bad past and i care a lot about what my mum thinks and me and her have a very close relationship. I really like this lad and i know how much he likes me because he's constantly telling me he loves me, i mean he must be serious about me because he has had a tattoo of my name on his right arm with hearts round it. But my mum more or less forced me to finish him and i really want him back. Im a very shy person and don't really like doing things behinde my mums back. I really don't know what to do here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhis past wasnt really something he had done but something he had done to him. He was abused by his step dad and he dropped out of school because he was getting bullied. Also his dad died along time ago and his mum is bad egg lol. Hes not at school anymore becus hes 18 now.x
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (7 May 2008):
 i'm sure ted bungry or charlie manson or even hitlet to a lesser extent were really nice people once you got to know them.. out side of the murdering and such.
blah blah you're young blah blah you mum doesn't hate your doing it for you own good blah blah whine whine.
yeah thats basicly it.
if charlie manson said he loved you would that be ok?
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reader, lovehate +, writes (7 May 2008):
 What was his past like, does your mum have a point? All this needs to be taken into consideration. Your mum is just trying to protect you from getting hurt. Mother's know best when it comes to relationships and teengers. They have been through it! Listen to your mum, talk to her about it. Be open, that can only make the matter progress. Don't yell and scream like a teenager but sit down and rationalise with her about your situation.
I hope it works out for the best, good luck : )
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): What has he done in his past? If your mom knows this she probly has a good reason for you two not to be together. Your mom is just trying to protect you and from my experiance the old saying '' Mother's know best'' Is true! My mom has told me dozens of times that guy is not right for you and I would just ignore her, But she was always right. The guys she told me were not right ethier cheated on me or just was an a** hole. Remember that your mom was young once to and has had many boyfriends through the years. She has more experiance with men. Also it troubles me that you only date this guy off and on for seven months and he has a tattoo with your name on it. Thats a little scarey. Men don't tell you they love you like that only after seven months of dating. He sounds like he may be the possesive type. That's not good and you could get hurt. You should listen to your mom if she finds out you are seeing him behind her back then your realy in for some trouble and it could take years to get her trust back.
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