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*attie90
writes:ok this is embarrassing to ask but is it because of me that my bf wont go down on me or that hes not wanting 2? because hes told me that hes done it b4 and likes doing it but why wont he do it 2 me? i dont c why he wont i make sure i dont smell or anthing i take showers everyday but yet he wont do the only times hes really done it is when i just get out of the shower is it cuz he knows im clean? is it cuz hes disgusted cuz he knows i went 2 the bathroom that day? pleasehelp me i dont know what 2 do! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): Do not trust any non-gay men who don't like eating a girl out.
They lie through their teeth if that is the case.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): I agree with Kimaxsi, some guys are just too selfish to even think about giving us girls any tongue downstairs, as they sometimes don't get anything in return and they would much prefer to feel you offering fellatio.I give my guy a blowjob every time we have sex and he has only went down on me about 5 times in total since we started going out, that was 3 yrs ago! I would suggest shaving or waxing to get rid of unwanted hairs as a lot of men find it a turnoff. If all else fails, I would suggest giving him something to think about... Give him a blowjob that he won't forget and when he gets the point where he can't take it any more, tell him you want the favour returned!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): I'm sure he is uneasy about the cleanliness of this area. I dated a girl who after a number two, would wipe from back to front, and the area smelled like it. She would get infections and her doctor even told her, which she was annoyed by.
As I, he maybe fearful of hurting your feelings, so don't be hard on him. I suppose one way to find out, is to finger yourself and smell. If he does it after to wash, this might be the problem. Remember you both might consider bathing before sexual play ... we both aren't clean after sweating and all.
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