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anonymous
writes:HelloMy new boyfriend is divorced and eight years older than me, which is not a problem to me, what is the problem is that i am still a virgin and dont know if i should tell him this, and how do i tell him, or maybe he already knows.Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): Exactly what happytochat said!
Coming from a guy I can tell you he is almost certainly going to love that bit of news! Don't hide it any longer, trust me you'll make him feel very important and what guy doesn't like that ;-)
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (8 May 2008):
I think you should tell him, not only because honesty in a relationship is important but because it will make your first time with him alot easier. It can be a bit scary and if your bf knows you are a virgin it will take the pressureo off you to feel like you have to live up to a high standard. It will alos allow him to be more considerate, to take things slow and to guide you.
May he already know? I guess he could suspect it. My first bf knew I was a virgin because my hyman wasnt broken...but yours could be as often it can break through other things not just sex, such as sport, using tampons and masturbation.
So i think you should just tell him. Dont be embarrased :) I think your bf will feel special that you have chosen him to be your first!!!!!
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