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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey guysthere is a girl who i met in the summer, and we flirted a lot, she was always touching me and staring at me and i cud bet my bottom dollar she had feelings for me...then she went back home...across the globe to her home, this was august and we talked everyday up until this point, via the internet, every conversation without fail we'd say we love each other in the midst of it, and at the end. Then the last web convo we had i said i love her, and she said she loves me too (this was alll serious), and she said she misses me and it kills her cuz everyday she thinks about me without fail since she went back home, and she was really serious like rubbing her temples when she told me. And she also randomly brought up that same convo how 2 of her friends r bi females and in a relationship, randomly and for no reason. And we've talked about it b4 too and said she thinks its normal and has no prob with it either. Actually one time i told her how this girl kissed me and she was like so? I don't think anything wud be wrong if u kissed her. So that all gave me the confidence to tell her how i feel, but i didn't say it indefinitely, i was super worried about her response so i told her im really confused cuz i've only ever had this feeling b4 for guys, and so on and how i don't want to weird her out and how obviously nothing can happen and how i don't want it to happen and i also asked her not to even respond to this msg cuz i just wanted her to know but i want to continue our friendship the way it is.LIES...obviously i want something i was just so scared of her response.but now we write a lottt less, we don't say we love each other every msg, the msgs are muchhhh shorter, and she doesn't even reply as frequently as b4 even tho i can see she was talking to other ppl. i just want to know...like do u think i creeped her out? is that why she is acting like this? i mean she said soo many times before she was cool with it (bi, gay etc.) unless she was lying to get a confession out of me.any insight would be appreciated :)thanks a lot
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your answer pu, and i guess thanks to the first person who responded :S. I am not a lesbian, she's the only girl who i had these feelings for ever, and i can differentiate btwn friends and something more, i was there, so i know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): OK!Girl you did creep her out there aren't many lesbians in the world. Girls who aren't lesbians do touch each other but not in a bad or creepy way. We stare at each other when we want to be freinds. She wanted to be your friend. She is not a lesbian. So just find a girl who is a lesbian.
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