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writes:How do you get even with a guy for using you to try to make another girl jealous? This is happening at work. I'd love to sock it to him!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): Since you know, you're not being used. Don't sock him; just take to asking him how whatshername is whenever he hits on you.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (7 May 2008):
Why get revenge? Let this guy take you out for dinner, bring you gifts, buy you lunch, and then when he either gets back with his poor sap of a girlfriend, or she dumps him then you can go off on your way with a cupboard full of chocolate boxes and some new perfume.
Just be high maintenance and get revenge on his credit card rather than causing problems in your work place.
He's a loser either way.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): Yes, I don't like games either, they can have adverse results.
I had a girl use me to get this guy jealous. She worked at a grocer's, and I was taken by her. Over time we talked, but I noticed something odd about her aura. I eventually recognized a guy in the back ground looking on. She became very close, when I showed up she would almost snuggle up to me and put her arm around me. I didn't show up for a while, went to another place to shop. One day I did go there, she showed me her engagement ring, she was so very proud of it.
These two people were in a state of mind that no one could have talked to them, it would have been pointless.
In your case though, not sure how this other girl feels about this guy, but telling him to knock it off, that you don't want to be in the middle, to be used for his personal gains, and deceiving her into jealousy.
At this point, hopefully he has the courage to stop and be a man and go to her, otherwise, tell her what you told him.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (7 May 2008):
 Hi
Why dont you just tell the other girl. If he is making it seem like there is something going between you two then just tell the other person.You could also tell this guy that you prefer if he isnt so "friendly" as your bf dont like the idea. Alternatively you could wait until the next time he uses you in front if the girl and just say this: Stop acting like there is something between us when there is. Im not even into you. This would not only let the girl know what he was up tp but it would also embarass him!!
Regards, mail me if you wanna talk
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