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writes:Hi,i was seein three girls recently, one was my girlfriends for a year who i have broken up with now, because i was havin trouble with the realtionship for many months and decided to end it...after i broke up with her i started to see someone, at first we only met when her friends were there andd this was a year ago, we never met on our own and she was getting over her ex at the time and about two weeks ago she started to meet me on a regular basis, still with her friends around...however about three months ago i met someone else and have been spendin almost all my free time with her with the excption of the past two weeks, with the new one i have an amazing time, we constantly laugh and spend copius amouts of time with each other...i told her about the everything before i started to date her...but now i have feelings for both, i told both of them about each other...in a manner to decide who i want tobe with...in one hand i was trin to date one girl for over a year but she never had time to meet onour own and see how we are and discover more about each other...however i am besotted by her aswell...and the new girl is the most amazing person i have ever met...she is everything you would ever want from a partner and more...so what should i do?do i listen to my logic? or do i just disregard both and start a fresh...as if i chopose one over the other that will create more problems over the future friendship i have with either!HHHHEEELLLPPP!!!!!!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 May 2008):
I don't think it is possible to have equally strong feelings over 2 girls.
You have to take a bit of time away from both and figure out which one you want. Do they know you are dating other girls or are you cheating on them?
Only you know which one you like, but you may not want to be too close a friend to either of them once you have chosen. make a clean break whatever you decide.
Good Luck!! xx
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