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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Well I have been single for quite a while now and i have been trying to meet men. Well I met this guy on the internet like six months ago and i have been talking to him ever since. We had made plans to meet because we live only like a half hour from each other. Well one night he drove to my house to hang out. I found is EXTREMELY good looking and I was very attracted to him sexually. We talked for a bit then we ended up fooling around. We didnt have sex but i really wanted to which i dont normally do things like that. He was a pretty selfish as far as fooling around. He wanted me to give him a hand job and oral sex, which I did but then he made no attempts to do anything to me except kiss and fondle just a little. He certainly didnt make an attempt to have sex with me, this all kind of bothered me. After we fooled around he stayed for a few more hours and we just takled. He was an amazing guy. We had everything in common and the chemistry was great. He seemed to like me too. Everything just felt right. Well eventually he left. I havent heard from him since and that was several days ago? what went wrong? Did he not feel anything for me? Was he not sexually attracted to me even though he made moves? Perhaps maybe I moved to fast for just meeting him and he thinks im easy. Someone help me I need some answers. Why did this happen? I think I have feelings for this guy and what should I do about them. Please dont judge me just help me out
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reader, dancing_boo  +, writes (7 May 2008):
 First and foremost i think you need to decide in your heart whether or not he's worth YOU after leaving it such a period of time.
Secondly dont assume that it has anything to do with you...he may just be shy and perhaps not interested therefore leaving a blank space...leaving you to make yor own judgement.
Ultimatley...if your serious and felt a connection and want to pursue this further, make contact with him and find out whats going through his mind. I hope you work things out which ever outcome.
Best wishes x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): some men r selfish jerks--not all but some. it sounds like he just wanted to get off and wasnt really looking for much more. iv had runins like this too--even w/guys iv talked to for yrs. after meeting in person 7 out of 10 guys end up w/no communication afterwards.
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reader, growing  +, writes (7 May 2008):
 First of all don't panic and now make some efforts to talk to that lad .may be he met some accident and thus can't be in touch.
i assume oyu have exchanged phone numbers as you have met so its not just through offline msgs.so call him and find out the actual reason.
once you will put your concern across him,he will let you know what he is up to and this will make things easy on your side.
no matter if he changed his mind about you after meeting you but atleat you know that his chapter is over and you can think of some1else and if the reason is differnt for his distant behavior then work together on that.
best of luck!!!!
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