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I really can't tell if we are just friends or if I mean more to him.

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Question - (7 May 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 May 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have been friends with this guy for about 10 years. Over time I have fallen in love with him. He knows how I feel and has told me he loves me too. We hang out all the time alone and with friends.

When we are out he acts as if we are together. His body language tells me there is more. If guys approach me he gets a little jealous and lets them know that he is with me, even saying I was his girlfriend several times.

People always think we are together, people like mutual friends, his friends, my family. We have slept next to each other, just spooning, but he won't make any moves. I have kissed him on the lips softly with no response.

When I ask him about his actions he denies everything. What gives?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008):

It sounds like he just wants you to himself and if he can't have you know one else can sort of thing.

You should just give him an ultimatum; if he doesn't want to be with you tell him to let you go. However may not be trying anything with you 'cus he doesn't want to ruin the friendship or hurt you.

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