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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My husband made friends with a co worker, all 3 of us work together, although I'm not there that much because it isn't my main job. He had been helping her move, hugging her, posing for pics, playing golf with her ex husband, and even had a secret handshake - only the two of them know (no, we are not in junior high). He did all this without telling me about any of it, and when I was around he would stay away from her. I almost never even saw them talking to each other, but then i find out when i'm not around he's a totally different person. Who's wrong here, him for behaving this way or me for being upset?
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reader, davie  +, writes (7 May 2008):
I don't blame you for being upset. He is your husband. If he is helping a co-worker move house then that is absolutely fine but I don't see why he wouldn't tell you or mention it. He may have only not told you because he was worried you'd be unfortable with him having a female friend, or he may have had other reasons for not telling you.
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