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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My gay best friend and I were messing about on webcam the other night. We're dead close and have seen eachother naked before, and for a joke I was dancing around my room to music on webcam and it kinda turned in to a bit of strip tease which progressed in to both of us getting quite horny and having cam sex with eachother. We didnt mention it again until yesterday when we were talking and he brought it up. He told me that for about half an hour (about the length of the strip tease) he was a straight man and now thinks he might be a tiny bit heterosexual. He keeps going on about what a good arse I have and his voice just sounds different on the phone when he talks to me. We're still very close and I dont think it has affected our friendship, but just something seems different. Whats going on?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (8 May 2008):
Very few people are 100% gay or 100% straight. Most people have a few percent they are not sure about.
It's impossible for me to tell you what is going on because he probably doesn't know what is going on either.
If you wanted to start a relationship with this guy then it would be super complicated as he may still find himself attracted to other men.
You could just be friends with benefits occasionally? If it doesn't affect your friendship and neither of you would be jealous if the other one found someone else instead.
Or you could just accept that it happened because you are so close and then carry on as before.
Leave him to sort his head out and then talk about it when he is ready.
Good Luck!! xx
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