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30-35,
*irgin89
writes: my gf is a virgin and we just recently started fooling around.. she gets nothing out of fingering and i've posted about that on here before.. but bc she doesn't get anything out of that would her g-spot not give her anything either??
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (7 May 2008):
You are so sweet to be worried about her pleasure too. Annalisa gave you some good advice there, so I don't have much to add, other than to suggest that you ask her to show you what feels good to her. Ask her if she masturbates at all, she might not know how to, or what feels good to her. If you're both comfortable with this, you could try to include a vibrator, not a dildo-style one, but one that is used for body massages, and try that over her clitoris.
The clitoris can be very sensitive if it's exposed, it's kind of nestled at the top of the labia under folds of skin, so it might be best to rub that area with a flat hand, or just gently use your fingers or tongue, if you're comfortable with that to stimulate it gently.
Keep in mind that her brain is her largest sex organ, and romance and feeling loved and desired is very important!
Hope this helps!
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