Should I confront him even though I violated his privacy

A female age 41-50, *endy24 writes:

I have been back with my ex since March 4th now. I admit i do have some trust issues, which i allowed to take the best of me the other day. While my BF was asleep I did a very sneaky thing and checked his text messages. I saw a text from a girl on March 27th stating that she was pregnant and wanted to get an abortion. Later text on 4/13 asking for money for the procedure and on 4/18 stating the place. Other than those text I never saw any outgoing texts from him or any phone calls between the two of them. I am not sure if she got pregnant before we got back together and realized it after we were together as there were no communications between the two. I also noticed a text from another girl on 4/4 stating "just wanted to take the time to say I love you because life is short and you need to let people know how you feel" and later that day saying "I miss you too and can't stop thinking about you". I didn't see any texts he sent to her and I didn't see any other texts from her other than the 4th, but I did notice a phone call that she made on 5/1 and he called her back. Reminder we have been back together since 3/4. Should I confront him even though what I did was sneaky? or should I wait and let it come to the light? Help me!

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