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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Any night out where I receive no female attention always feels like a disappointment to me. How can I lower my expectations and just let the night flow? I haven't had a girlfriend for a while, so I'm on the look out, but as of yet I've had no luck. Am I doing something wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): Yes youre basing your life on 'nights out'. Join some activity clubs, painting, photography, dancing etc. This way you can meet a woman in an environment were you can get to know a her. This will also allow you to develop your interests and become a more rounded person.Alternatively you can continue to salivate in a bar all night.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): Probably. i suggest the best thing to do is to not put so much pressure on urself. the more you feel that pressure, the less likely u'll go out and have fun. and the point of going out is to relax and have a good time, meet people with no stress and expectations. and from my experience, i can say that girls can sense it. and girls hate desperation and neediness. so it would be best to go out, and let the true you shine. ur unique sense of humour and personality. u'll come off confident and likeable and i'm sure in no time, the rite girl will come along. all the best!
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