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female
age
36-40,
*nnielove
writes: i have been seeing this guy for 4 years, i love him so much, but this days he is gone to drinking and partying and never calls me as frequent as he used to. when i call him and ask him why he says he has no money also he tells me he really loves me but he never says the words its me to say i love him then he replies "me too sweety" ,i don't know if am still special to him or not,our relationship beginning last year December became long distant,just last weekend he took me out but left me hanging alone as he danced with another girl his buddies told me not to worry am his num:1 choice and he just loves dancing with anyone but no strings attached cupid me am really worried i don't know does he really love me or am just wasting my time with him do help me please.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (16 May 2008):
 Drinking and partying cost money. Seems he has his priorities and you just aren't the #1 at this time. He was rude to have danced with another woman while he left you sitting there. It does seem that he's taking you for granted and that you are more interested in him than he is in you. I think you should try to distance your feelings for this man or you could have the talk. Warning though, men hate the talk and my guess is that it will only further distance him from you.
Good luck.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (16 May 2008):
 If he loves dancing and you are his number 1 girl why wasn't he dancing with you...? Very rude and you should have definitely let him know so. It doesn't sound like he cares as much as you do. He seems to be great without talking to you and partying with other girls. What are your priorites? Do you go out frequently or are you more mature for your age? You may be at different stages in your life right now and it could be best to move on. If his partying isn't a big deal to you then keep dating him. But obviously this does matter to you so you need to address this head on. Ask him what he wants. Tell him how you feel towards his actions and ask him how he truly feels and what he wants to do about the relationship. I think I can safely say he doesn't care much for you since on his weekend with you he was dancing with someone else and left you alone. My advice would be to move on. Good luck.
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