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I think I'm properly in love with myself!

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Question - (16 May 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 May 2008)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have a problem....it's serious.

Don't laugh when I say this cos it might sound a little wierd. I think I'm properly in love with myself. I just can't stop thinking about me. Nobody seems to be anywhere near as good as me and even when I tell myself it can't be possible to love myself this much, I just can't stop. I'm heartbroken and this is just all too much! Please help xoxo

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (19 May 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

Hitler,Stalin,Mussolini all loved themselves.

You are in dangerous company mate. Maybe tone it down, but if you are happy with loving yourself then what the heck.

But don't expect too much in the relationship front, I couldnt ever imagine going out with someone who was very self obsessed, you would never be able to live up to their expectations - who needs that!

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (16 May 2008):

Maybe someone in your past, possibly a parent has showered praise and compliments on you and as a result you have a very high opinion of yourself. At least you wont ever have self-confidence issues!

If you feel that your feelings may cause problems in your relationships, you should think about seeing a counsellor, they deal with all sorts of situations and will be able to help you understand you're behaviour.

Good luck

xxx

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A female reader, BlondeBabe x United Kingdom +, writes (16 May 2008):

BlondeBabe x agony auntyeah u mite hav slightly taken the term love yourself to far!

Well would you ever call urself vain or mayb your are selve centered cause i think that it is impossible to love yourself i agree with the other comment u may need cousenling to stop loving yourself so much

Well Good Luck Babe x

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (16 May 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntWhile it's true that in order to love someone else, you have to love yourself first, this might be taking it a bit too far. Go to Wiki and look up Narcissism. If any of it strikes a bell, get thyself into counseling.

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