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It hurts to the point where it impedes me from completing the orgasm. Please tell me why.

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Question - (16 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

When I have penetration, I rub my clitoris so I can at least feel some kind of pleasure, because if not then I don't feel a thing.

Anyway, when I am cumming close to having an clitoral orgasms, I feel my vaginal muscles contract--like my vagina is tightening around the penis and it HURTS to the point where it impedes me from completing the orgasm.

Everytime i think about how that feels I don't even want penetration. I cannot achieve a clitoral orgasm while being penetrated.

What is up with that?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008):

You need to book an appointment to see a gynological doctor for a routine check. They are the experts in this field and can check to make sure that everything is ok.

It seems that when you reach orgasm, you tighten up so much that it hurts. Talk to a doctor about what you can do about this.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008):

Many women have this problem.

Perhaps he needs to get you off (rubbing your clitoris or performing oral sex for you) before he does...That way you come and then he penetrates you for his own pleasure. Or he gets off before you. However, some guys lose interest in pleasing after they have been pleased themselves.

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