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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: recently found my boyfriends facebook page and found emails he had sent and received from a girl in work. (Very sexually explicit) He has said nothing ever happened and that it was all on Facebook and just for attention. We have an 18month old baby and I was diagnosed with having MS after baby's birth so it's been a difffcult year or so.Apparently he never sees this girl in work and he has closed down his facebook and is now making a big effort.He wouldn't move nearer my family before for more help but now he is leaving his job and moving with me.I feel so angry all time with him and don't know whether going back with him was the right idea.He doesn't think there was any harm (and wouldn't do again) as it wasn't real but as far as i am concerned it was an affair. Things don't feel right on my part but don't want my baby to be brought up without a dad.What shall i do? Am i being extreme by getting rid of him because of this.??Any advice or thoughts appreciated. Thanks
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reader, angel2311  +, writes (16 May 2008):
 Well sweetie if he's willing to change his ways then just give it a shot. Yea he might of been cheating which is how I feel. But he might just of realized how it would hurt u him and the baby if he did start this affair. I say wait it out abit and see if he goes on his word ( it doesn't hurt to spy) and u got to keep in mind that u can't make rash decisions now cuz they'll affect u and the baby. I believe in not braking a happy home but I'm no fool nether. If he continues havin a affair leave him but let him kno that he has to be there for his son and arrange* some sort of agreement that doesn't leave anything 1 sided. I hope I take my advice and as a favor look over my problems and lets help eachother out cool.
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