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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): Cheating, like anything else will more than likely happen..whether you got tempted by the woman/man who you see everyday on your way to work or your girlfriend/boyfriend cheating with some guy/girl who consoled her in his/her time of need....either way it happens so
Rule 1. Keep it tidy!
Dont let notes from "the other" woman/man lie around.
Rule 2. Remember your story
Most people mess up because they get their stories confused but you have to keep it tight and anticipate questions
Rule 3. Dont get overly mad when confronted
Stay calm..when ask just give calm answer if they insist get stern but stay in a calm state
Rule 4. Excuses
Make sure your friends know about your lies..so if your girl/man calls they can cover..never keep them out of the loop
Rule 5. Love
If the girl/man you are seeing falls in love with you and you dont love them back, BREAK IT OFF....love leads to moving in and stoppign by on random occasions
Rule 6 Most importantly
DONT FUCK GIRLS/GUYS WHO KNOW EACH OTHER OR HANG AROUND IN THE SAME CIRCLES.
this also goes for small towns...never cheat with a girl/guy who lives in a small town with a girl/guy who stays in the small town because they will meet
Rule 7 Curfew
Dont stay out to late unless you have an excuse or your BF/GF is not suspicious and be ready for an excuse if they question you and say it in a calming manner..
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): If you wouldent do it two somone when your partner is there then it should usually meen its cheating and if your partner did it to you would you be upset is a good way to know if your cheating. hope this help.
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reader, Dipsydoodlenoodle  +, writes (19 May 2008):
The rules of cheating are do not do it.Cheating is anything that you would not do in front of your partner, or anything that if he did it then you would not like it. x
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reader, ricbax +, writes (18 May 2008):
You have to set your own rules, the point is that both partners have to agree to them and stick to them. Someone who is into swinging doesn't mind if their partner has sex with someone else, so long as it is within agreed boundaries and at agreed venues where both partners are present. Someone who is clingy and possessive probably doesn't want their partner even eyeing up another person, using pornography, or having friends of the opposite sex. Those are two extremes but it really depends on the individual.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 May 2008):
 One more silly reason I read in here,
5) Masturbating to porn or thinking of other sexy images of
other girls and not to the g/f 's picture or thought of her is cheating..LOL!
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (17 May 2008):
I learned from Dear Cupid site that cheating is ;-
1) looking at porn or possession on phone or pc.
2)Flirting online or in real life.
3)Texting or SMS and talking on the phone to another person of the opposite sex.
4)Ogling at girls
Lucky , I don't live in that kind of world.
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reader, all i need  +, writes (16 May 2008):
first of all,
if you are asking this question because you are concidering cheating (on any level no matter what it may be) then heres my advise. DONT. if you want to be with, touch with, kiss with, hold hands with, exc. with someone besides your mate, then you really sont need to be with your mate anymore. you need to break it off with them, cheating isnt worth it, TRUST ME!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): Rules of cheating
1 Don't get caught
2 Lie if caught
3 Blame other person for driving you to it
4 Get feet back under table
5 Pheeew
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): I think that I would consider cheating as getting that bit too close to someone else whilst in a relationship with someone - And knowing that you shouldn't and knowing that your boyfriend/girlfriend/(etc) would be upset if they found out.
It doesn't have to be sex in my opinion. It can be anything that you should only be doing with your partner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): Rules? Cheating is breaking the rules.
Some people think it's cheating if its full sex, others that flirting is cheating. It depends on the person. You are the only person who knows what effect another person's actions have on you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): I'd consider cheating as doing anything you wouldn't do with just a friend, whilst you are in a relationship. For example, kissing, sex etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): Having sexual intercourse with someone whilst you've made a commitment to somebody else to be faithfull. (cheating)
Having sexual intercourse with someone with the permission of your husband or wife. (open marriage)
Holding hands with somebody whilst your committed to someone else (friendship)
Kissing somebody whilst your married to somebody else (family/motherhood).
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