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writes: My boyfriend and me discussed the other day tha i wanted him to make the first move ect..cos he's so shy and it's starting to bug me, according to him he's had loads of gfs so surely he's okay with girls? we have kissed once but we have been seeing each other for about 1 month and a half now and he's too shy to even hold my hand it's as if he wants me to make the first move.also i think ive fallen in love with him, is this possible seeing as its only been about a month and a half and we dont even touch much??he alays says i love you ect...but does he mean it??we are both 14 so i dont no if hes just not mature yet or someting... please help xx
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reader, spanglegirl +, writes (16 May 2008):
Ok honey, i wouldn't really believe him when he said he has had loads of girlfriends, all boys this age say this as they don't want people to think any different of them. He sounds as if he is really nervous and shy so i think it is gonna have to be you who makes the first move.
When your walking or sitting down together put your hand next to his so it is touching to see if he takes your hand, if not take his instead. The more you make a move toold his hand or to kiss him the more relaxed he will start to feel around you.
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