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writes: am I a whoRe because I like so many guys i.e. 2-6I just can't decide between them I know which ones I like more but it does really change much some I think are cute some I really like but its hard to choose which one to go for? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys i feel better
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (16 May 2008):
 You are just young, it happens to all of us, you will grow out of it. ;)
Just take it as a hint that you are not yet ready for a full commitment with a guy. Friends for now and when you are older and more mature things will settle down. A decade from now you will laugh about it all. Doesn't help you now of course. Ah well, enjoy being a teen.
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reader, muffy  +, writes (16 May 2008):
 No.your not a whore.i liike a lot of guys too.Being a whore is something way worse then that.I knoe how you feel and im in that situation too.I cant choose which guy i want.Hope everything works out.
Love always,
Muffy
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (16 May 2008):
 It doesn't make you a whore, it makes you a hormonal teenage girl - in other words, pretty normal. Who you /like/ does not determine whore-i-ness, it's what you /do/.
As for deciding which one to 'go for', be sure to weigh up all the pros and cons in regards to each lad - and not just things like how cute he is.
Of course, there's always the option of you /not/ going for any of them. You're still young, and there is plenty of time for you to develop a relationship.
There is no need to hurry.
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reader, Uncle Sneaker  +, writes (16 May 2008):
 It's not liking many boys that might put you in the category that some uncharitable people might call "whore, slag, slapper" etc etc. It's what you DO that might cause those sort of names to be thrown around.
I'll put it bluntly. You don't let them touch inappropriate parts of you, and you don't touch inappropriate parts of them. And you go easy on the kissing and cuddling - it's a privilege for someone you know and like very well, not a God-given right for any boy who happens to be pleasant to you for a while.
So to decide which ones you like best, you get to know them better. It doesn't have to involve anything intensely physical, does it? Most boys will go just as far as you let them go (you probably already know that). It's up to you to stop them, if you want to avoid the unpleasant labels so often given to girls who don't know when to stop.
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reader, Isabella1974  +, writes (16 May 2008):
 No darling, you are not...you are at that stage in your life that you like boys and are weighing up your options.
I am presuming that you are not imtimate with these, i hope not, you are to young.
Just take your time and be careful sweety. Just be friends with them and get to know them better and eventually once you know them better you will decide which one you like the best.
Hope this helps xx
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