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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I like this boy and I'm pretty sure he likes me. However we're both to shy to ask the other out. What should I do?
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reader, les +, writes (16 May 2008):
Keep hanging out with him and being really nice. Some guys take a while.
A note on shy guys to make you feel better: My bf and I met in highschool. I sat next to him for a year. I liked him and he liked me and it was OBVIOUS, but both of us were very shy and afraid of rejection. He asked me out 8 years later. You never know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): The next time you see him just bite the bullet and ask him out, try your hardest to get over the shyness and it will be ok. I was shy, yes, i know hard to believe, but i was and look how i turned out, LOUD......
take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): Just keep talking to him and enjoying each other's company. Sometimes it's a good idea to get into the conversation something like - 'so do u like anyone at the moment?' You can probably tell by his reaction.
But if that doesn't work out, then just think - you don't want to regret not doing something about it just because you're shy, i've been in that position and i've thought 'gee i wish i'd have just gone for it!!'. So one day when u have a burst of confidence just ask him if he'd like to go out sometime.
Hope it helped a little! Keep us updated please =)
xx Hope xx
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male
reader, Mr Tips +, writes (16 May 2008):
Ask him today, you want to know the answer to your question then ask him, whats the worst that can happen, if he says no then move on, if he says yes move on ether way you will move on not be stuck in the rut you are now.
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