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male
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I'm so confused. I met my best friend nearly 15 years ago when we were at college together. We dated for a few months but we realised we were better at being friends than lovers. We both live in the same town so we have shared each others ups and downs and remain very close to this day. My friend is a serial dater , this has never bothered me as I am not the jealous type but her latest exploit got me thinking. She always says that her boyfriends are not able to truly satisfy her, but it's usually said with a playful wink. But something has made me think about this, we were having a drink last night and she told me about her latest boyfriend. She has only been out with him twice and she claims she falling in love with him!For the first time she decided to share everything with me. Her new boyfriend apparently has a very large penis and I got the full graphic details on her Friday/Saturday night adventures. She said she had to tell somebody and I was it.Now why do I feel jealous? this is not the first boyfriend she has told me about, is it because I am feeling inadequate? I am now thinking about why we split up all those years ago and I realise that it was her who broke up with me the day after we first had sex! Did she dump me because I couldnt measure up to her expectations , I never would think she would be that shallow. If she did I don't know how we are going to remain friends . Should I ask her?
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 Nahhh. I wouldn't even go there. If you already accepted all of this, the end of the relationship and the beginning of your being best friends years ago, and have always been in the habit of sharing these details, it would seem petty or suspiscious to bring this up now, just because she is bragging about the size of some guys penis. It would probably come off as if you wanted her back again as well. You did already state that she was shallow and a serial dater. That probably explains why she is impressed by a large dick rather than the quality of this guys character, otherwise, she wouldn't have left a guy who remains her best friend. Too bad, but that's her loss. Hopefully, you also have your own life and a love of your own, sounds like she's the lucky one.
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