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Why hasn't he called me?!

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Question - (9 June 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 June 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi, two years ago I met a really nice guy and we went out on a few dates. I ended things before they got serious because I was still in love with my ex boyfriend and was finding it hard to move on. This guy was really upset, but we stayed in touch and texted each other every 6 months or so to say hi.

Then last week, out of the blue, he called to ask if

I would go out with him for his birthday, which was on Thursday. I expected there to be a group of people meeting up, but when he picked me up there was just the two of us. We went out and had a geat time, we spent the evening laughing and joking, and I realised that I really like him. At the end of the night, he declined to come into my house, but said he'd had a great evening and could we do it again. I said yes, that I would love to see him again and that I'd had a wonderful night and was sorry for everything that had gone on before, and he then told me I was beautiful, pecked me on the cheek and went home.

The thing is, this was on Thursday and I haven't heard from him since! He hasn't called me at all. I sent him a text saying hi, but he hasn't responded and I don't want to push it in case he isn't interested. I tried calling his phone but it has been switched off all weekend so now I've deleted him number so I don't keep trying and driving myself mad! Can anyone be honest with me out there - if he hasn't called all weekend, this is a blow out, right? How long is normal to wait? Thanks so much for reading x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008):

I am in kind of the same boat.

I work for a car dealership and

two nice young men came in looking

to buy a car, i sold them on a really

nice sporty fun car, and when his buddy

was in financing, and handing the car money

process his friend asked me for my number, and

i thought okay, sure...this could be fun so i gave

it to him. We went out to Dinner and watched a movie at

his place, that was friday and its monday now

i am starting to wonder if he is just busy,

or uninterested. He kissed me and asked

if we could do it again. i'd love to

but i am worried now with no text

and no call. Good luck, hun if

your figure it out, let me

in on your secret. :)

take care.

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