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*ubbloo24
writes:Hello everyone,My problem is that there is a guy who won't stop texting me, when I don't reply, he emails me. He changes his MSN names and facebook statuses to the EXACT same as mine for instance I had a quote from my favourite TV show - Black Books, and he put the exact same quote in his Facebook status after seeing mine! It's seriously getting at me.He's a nice guy and he's a mate to me but he just won't leave me alone!I don't text him back and I deliberatly don't go on MSN anymore so that I can avoid him! I don't really know what to say to him because he doesn't have that many friends and I don't really want to hurt him. Any ideas of what I can do? I can't really break off the friendship coz he's in my band!Any help would be great!!ThanksBubbloo24
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reader, bubbloo24 +, writes (9 June 2008):
bubbloo24 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you everyone for your advice.
I will speak to him and tell him to back off a bit and give me some space because I feel uncomfortable.
Thanks again.
Bubbloo24
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reader, Mushgirl  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 I had a problem a bit like this - the guy suddenly worshipped the same band as me, went to the same parties and gigs, and took photos of my house. I barely knew him. It might seem a bit creepy at the time, but I think it's fairly normal for teenagers to get obsessions over people. He probably thinks that you have a deep spiritual connection. You have to show him that you two will NEVER be together. Don't let him get his hopes up any more. But don't be too harsh or he could turn bitter and twisted! :p xxx
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reader, kenny +, writes (9 June 2008):
 It sounds like he really does like you alot, which is why he probably does not realise he is being so clingy to you. The next time you see him be upfront and honest and just tell him to lay off the text's & Emails for abit. Stress that you don't want to lose the friendship that you both have, im sure he will understand.
All the best & good luck x
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (9 June 2008):
 Just be honest with him i dont think he realises what he is doing to you and how he is making you feel, he obviously idolises you so just be nice and gently explain that he is making you feel uncomfotable and if he continues copying you there is a chance he will lose your friendship.
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reader, deadheart  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 The next time you see him just tell him about how you feel. Be kind and possibly listen to what he has to say. If he really is a nice guy he will understand and stop.
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