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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey, I need help with my confusing situation! Long story short, I've been seeing a guy 6 years older than I am (I'm 18) for the past year. I've cried over him too much and promised myself I'd get over him and see other guys,thing is, I never really did. So as soon as I start seeing another guy, he finds a way to minipulate me back into meeting him. Apologises for everything and vows to change.. So the past 2 months have been pretty great,we see each other loads..he makes all the moves,but the one thing is..I'm sleeping with him too. When I asked what's goin on,he says he's scared because I'm going away to university,no real answer. Plus,his last relationship ended badly,the girl was cheating on him the whole time,long distance. And he bought me a really expensive watch for my birthday next week,what's that about? When we're out together, he doesn't seem annoyed when guys flirt,or it's not "couply" at all. And for a few days,he won't make any contact at all..I just don't understand. Everyone tells me I'm too good for him but he makes me feel not good enough?Should I just tell him I'm not up for this or what do I do? I'm crazy about him, no one else..
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (9 June 2008):
 Ok this guy is controlling you and using you to play his game to make him self feel powerful and in control. Some guys are like that they like to make there partners feel useless and worthless and make them cry.
So end the games now he has played to many with you, you need to wake up and get wise to this now, your family say your to good for him? Listen to them trust your family they look out for you.
You need to get rid of this guy you have already wasted time and tears over him, Get rid of him and find someone who will treat you like the princess you are with no games.
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