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writes:I lost my virginity a few days ago to my boyfriend, and although (after the initial pain went) it felt good, my inner thighs hurt like hell. Sorry if this sounds crude, but every time I have a guy between my legs it kills! Will this go after we've had sex a bit more, or is it one of those things you can't avoid? I am quite small and he is verging on the chunky side of things. Any way to stop this happening? Thanks x
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reader, Seven  +, writes (15 June 2008):
your probabaly just not use to yor legs open in that position.....maybe u should start strecting you legs out more and see wat happens
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reader, misfitschik66  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 this is natural the same thing happens to me every now and then when to much pressure gets put on them after i lost my virginity my inner thighs hurt like hell just like you say yours do it goes away in a few days it just means that your body wasent used to being in that position for that long of a time and or he wasent doing it right and putting to much pressure on your thighs and pushing them on them and making them open wider then they could go!!! which most guys think because we have nuthing thier it doesent hurt to just spread them as wide as they go.. but we know their dead wrong!!
give it a few days the pain will go away and in the future incase you never want to risk feeling that pain again you can try diffrent positions such as you being on top or you being sideways or doggy style thier is lots you can do!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008): One he's in there, there's no reason why you shouldn't be able to close your legs and have his legs on the outside of yours, no matter who's on top. You may even find that this is more pleasurable for you because you're sort of 'clamping' him.
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