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writes:Hey guys I was just wondering if you could help me with something I,ve noticed for a while now. In school there is this guy who makes a LOT of eye contact with me and I cant help but make eye contact myself until one of us gets embarassed and looks away. Even in the class we end up making eye contact even if it is for a few seconds. I dont really know this guy we just say hi hello whatever in the halls and outside of class. We,ve never had a conversation and I dont like him. So guys I,ve heard that eye contact can be considered flirting what are your opinions on intense eye contact. I,m just asking for general opinions not necessarily in my case because I really dont care about this so I was just wondering what your views are on intense eye contact with someone you barely know. Thanks guys!!
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reader, J1  +, writes (30 December 2008):
yeah its called eye f****** lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot guys. I am not interested in him but was just wondering about all the intense eye contact as I,ve heard that it can mean different things. Thanks again.
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reader, kenny +, writes (9 June 2008):
 Eye contact is one in the most powerful flitatious tools that we can use to let someone we know that we fancy them. The duration of the eye contact that he is giving you is a sure sign that he well interested in you. If i like a girl i try to get eye contact with her regardless of how well i know her. In your post you said that you don't like him, in which case it is probably not a good idea that you return his gaze when he looks at you as he will take that as a green light.
All the best x
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 Yeah, he likes you. You should try and think up an excuse to approach him. Dropping your books when he is nearby, or something else (less lame, perhaps). I think he's probably interested and waiting for an opening to approach you. Guys are nervous about making the first move too, so if you give him an opening, he'll appreciate having the pressure taken off of him.
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