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*aisychild33
writes: I'm currently doing my A levels at my school, and are being taught by a teacher whom i've had for 3-4 years now.I have THE biggest crush on him, but to be honest, i'm not going to make a move or anything because i think everyone knows what will happen after that etc.He will lose his job and i will end up heartbroken.I try to talk to him as little as possible but I just can't help but think about him all the time.However, he's not helping.He treats me so differently to everyone else.There'll be a few of us who havent done the work, the others will get off very lightly and he'll keep me for after school detention. For after school detentions he'll keep me an hour longer then I was supposed to be in for.He has also told me that my legs aree a distraction to him, and comments about my "short shorts".what do i do?
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reader, nicole5178 +, writes (13 June 2008):
I would just enjoy the attention, but never act on it. I mean, you say you like him, so when he says you're attractive, just take it in stride. If he ever makes a move, tell him you're not interested in progressing things. But yeah, if you like him, what's the problem? It seems like you should be thinking it's flattering... you know, to have the feeling somewhat returned.
Obviously, like you said, don't start something with him. Just resist the temptation and enjoy the feeling of being liked in return by him.... As the other posts say, once you're out of school, then the problem will clear itself up.
Best of wishes- Nicole.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (10 June 2008):
i would cover yourself up more as not to give him any ideas. and try and do your course work and give him no reason to keep you after school..and do you have long left ? aphex :)
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (9 June 2008):
how much longer do you have befor your out of school. once your out, then you wont have to deal with it anymore. i dont feel like that helps but i dont know what else to tell you.
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