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*achakaRoni
writes:been flirting with a guy at work for a few weeks and last week we went out on a date and it was really nice. we had a laugh and had enjoyed eachothers company. we kissed and hugged and we decided that we wud take things slowly and we wudnt pull ne1 else- stay faithful to one other. we still have been having a laugh n a flirt at work but he isnt as keen on msn, I feel. I asked him when we wud next do something and he said he had a lot on at the moment but wud let me know when he cud. Does he still like me? is he messing me about? or just scared? Help!
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reader, kenny +, writes (9 June 2008):
 Yes i think he likes you, he would not have gone out with you if he diden't. Just be careful of office romances, when things are sweet then alls well. But when/if things turn sour then it can be very arkward having to see that person everyday, also arkward for your co-workers to because they would sense an atmosphere between the two of you. If things really did get serious one of may have to consider getting another job.
Also im not being funny here but you may want to check your post again and look at your would's and could's, its just you will find you will get alot more answers to your posts if your grammer is correct.
All the best x
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reader, Fionaisme  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 its hard to say as you dont know him very well yet. I would just leave it to him for maybe a few days or even a week. If he still likes you he will get in contact. Even if it is just to say that he has a lot on at the moment or whatever. It shows he respects you. If after a week you still think he isnt as keen i would say ask him straight out but in a non-threatening way if you get me are you going to be seeing each other again? If not just respect his decision and carry on as normal. If yes, well done to you and enjoy the fun.
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reader, dreamflower  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 I hate to break it to you, and I may be wrong, but it seems like he saw something in you that may have freaked him out or driven him away. Try to focus on whats good between you two and maybe you can work past it. But, if you keep trying to focus on whatever went wrong, you'll eventually send him screaming in the other direction. Just play it cool, be friends, and just stay positive!
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