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What goes on in guys' heads? And keep in mind we've broken up...

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Question - (9 June 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2008)
A female Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

my bf and i have been broken up for about 3 weeks now. Very stupid reason why, but anyways, we broke up before and maybe shouldn't even be together( i don't want advice on that I KNOW LET IT GO!!) Anyways i just want a guys input. He left me because of my actions (NOT CHEATING) Anyways We kinda had a few good texts the past few weeks except one night when i was drinking and told him i should just move on, and i may have lead him to believe I did. His texts back to me were ,," well now that i know you have moved on and Ruined us for good, guess i can stop having sh*tty days thinking about us"..and "Great way to ruin us for good" All seems like head games to me, anyways i said i was sorry the next day, and told him i was hurt. he forgave that. NOW..i did some thinking and i sent him a voicemail Saturday about how i wanted to talk and i had some stuff to work on and thought he did also, but i would like to try one last time to make this work.. and that i would like to see him to talk to him... i sent that message at 1pm,, finally at 10pm that nite he texted me to say,, that he just wanted me to know that he got my message and listened to it a few times and saved it!! Well that was it..Its now Monday and i havn't heard anything from him..Is he thinking?...is he playing games? Shouldn't he do something,,like hey No thanks its not gonna work...Or hey I'm still thinking?? Anything,,what goes through guys heads??

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A male reader, jay12toes United States +, writes (10 June 2008):

jay12toes agony auntwell i would say that hes either thinking it over or he wants you to call him again. i highly doubt that hes just messing with you though. so i guess you should just give him another call.

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