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writes:this is for girls,my girlfriend said she wanted a break from me in january cuz she was feeling down with being stuck in the house with no job or money and confused in her head and needed some space,she didnt say it was over and i asked her if it was the end of me and her and she no,if it was she said she wouldnt want anything to do with me,i done all the usual stuff like like tellin her i would change and stuff instead of actually givin her space,but we stayed in touch through txt,i saw her in april as friends and i asked her what was goin on,she said she will get in touch when she is ready,i asked her to look me in the eye and promise me that when she is ready she wants to give it another go and she did promise,i aslo asked her if she loved me and she said yes,i have asked her 4 times since in txts if she meant it and she has said yes,she has also told her brother that we are supposed to be gettin back together,my question is,do u think she means what she is sayin?,should i believe her?,she starts a job the end of this month to
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reader, lexilou +, writes (10 June 2008):
 No-one but your girlfriend knows what is going on in her head and its hard when they wont let you in and keep you hanging on.
Give her the space she needs, it is not necessarily over but if you dont truly give her enough space you could push her the wrong way. If I could wave a magic wand for you and make it all ok I would, but nobody can do that for you. Be patient with her and give her time to work it all out, dont hang on forever but give her time to settle in at her new job first x i wish you luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): i also wanted to asked,can we still get back together after 4 months?
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