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writes:I am currently seperated but still have feelings for my ex husband and still love my boyfriend? How do I know who to choose?
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (10 June 2008):
 i dont think it would be very fair to your boyfriend to just leave him for your ex. he hasnt done anything to deserve that, right? and things have already failed once with your ex, so i think you would be better off staying with your boyfriend. love the one your with.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (9 June 2008):
 Are you separated or actually divorced? If you're divorced, I would say that "it depends" -- are these mutual feelings? Is there some kind of resolution for whatever reason you broke up for in the first place? I suppose the same set of questions actually exist if you're separated too... is there some kind of resolution (and cure) for whatever separated you in the first place? To me, it seems that if the answer is "no", then I wouldn't revive that relationship.
On the "third party" issue of your boyfriend... well, I suppose you actually have one of those rare opportunities in life to "pick and choose" who you feel is better for you... of course, neither one could be, but the best place to find that answer is in your heart.
Best wishes for making the decision that brings you the most happiness!
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