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writes:ok so there is this guy who i lost my virginity to. im 18 and hes 23 and it turns out that he only used me for sex. now i really want to end it completely with him. i know this sounds bad but i want to hurt him just as bad as he hurt me. so how should i do it? should i ignore him? tell him that i deserve better? kick him in the you know what? tell him i found somebody else? any ideas on what would be best?
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 Hello,
just leave it now and just be clear to him that he hurt you. Similar happened to me many moons ago. Treat this as a learning curve. Never go for revenge or violence as you would be stooping to his level. You are worth more than that. H xx
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reader, lexilou +, writes (9 June 2008):
 He is the loser here as he has the lost the chance of a decent relationship with you. Just finish it and move on there will be plenty of other guys who will appreciate you and love you the way you wanted him to.
Revenge will not make you feel any better, dont stoop to his level he is not worth the time and effort x
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reader, Short timer +, writes (9 June 2008):
 Its jerks like this that piss me off, karma my friend will get to him, ignore him dont go to his level he will suffer in the end, but be more careful from now on you can never trust many people nowadays
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 Ouch. What scumbag, I feel for you love. No-one likes to be used.
As far as revenge goes, do you really want to be as bad as him? The best thing you can do is let him know that you don't appreciate being used, and that it's over. Walk away and be done with it.
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