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writes: i want to know if one should go for a long distance relationship..people say it never works..is it true..we live in the same country but different cities..so even if we get into a long distance relationship..how can we spice it up..so that both remain interested..i am 19 years old by the way!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): Well, I've been in a long distance relationship for 5 years now. The only way to keep it spicey is to use your voice if you get my drift. you have to let him or her know that you are still interested even if you can't touch each other. of course, it's not the same as real sex but if you're serious about your guy or gal you'll make it work
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (12 June 2008):
Long distance relationships are difficult to maintain, so this is a reasonable concern. Is there a chance for this to change, at all, and how long will the separation be for?
You could get a webcam so you can speak to each other face to face, email and text a lot as well as phone calls.
It is difficult but possible, but both parties have to be fully committed to making it work. If this is not the case, it's not going to work. There has to be light at the end of the tunnel too, so that you're not just avoiding a realtime relationship with someone who does live in the same city.
Take care!
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