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writes:Okay ... I need tips. I am a complete novice at oral sex. I've decided that I want to start doing it to my b/f, but I don't know how. I know that his ex used to do it on him, and I feel terrible that I just can't.I started by tasting his pre-cum to get used to it - and I very nearly brought it back up again - it reminded me of mucus! And that's just the pre-cum ... I feel so embarassed.I need advice on two things:1) Getting used to the taste and texture of pre-cum and cum.2) Technique on giving head.Please help!x
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reader, britney spears  +, writes (13 June 2008):
 i once had this problem and some things u could do is: tell him u've never given oral sex to someone b4! and tell him u might need practice and hey practice makes perfect! anyway about the taste i've heard if u brush ur teeth before u give oral sex u can cover some of the taste buds and that will get rid of some of the taste! use a very minty flavour toothpaste and just think to urself it's not mucus!
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (12 June 2008):
 You don't have to put it in your mouth from the start.
Start with light kissing and breathing on it, to tease him a bit. Then go up and down the underside of the shaft with hot, wet lips. The underside is the part that has all the feeling.
After a while you might like to go right on over the top and take him all in your mouth (depending how much you can take!) Use hands to manipulate what you can't get in your mouth.
Hold or very very lightly squeeze his testicles in your hand. You can also apply pressure on his abdomen, where his pubic hair is. These will both literally put pressure on the cum to move on up there!
The objection to pre-cum I can understand, but let's face it, it is a kind of mucus! When you kiss a person, do you think "Oh gross, that's all saliva he's got in his mouth!" If you do think that way, kissing could be a problem. The pre-cum is no more disgusting than saliva. And it's also no more disgusting than the lubrication in a woman's vulva. It's clean and it's natural.
Semen also seems to arouse passions. Ask any gay man what he thinks of semen and I'm sure you'll hear only murmurs of delight! I've heard women call it the "elixir of life". But other women find it gross. It's not gross; it's quite animal and sexy that this stuff should come shooting out after all that arousal.
At any rate, it's better hot from the penis than cold on the belly. People tend to be averse to liquids, like saliva, that have already left the body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): Performing Fellatio:Find a comfortable position;you can begin by kissing the shaft of the penis; then holding the shaft in one hand, swirl your tongue gently around the tip. Stimulate the tip with your tongue and and push your tongue into the slit.Next, explore the shaft, running your tongue around the ridge where it meets the head.When you feel ready, take the penis into your mouth , cover your teeth with your lips and move your mouth up and down, allow your partner to guide you the rhythm with his hands, maintaining a steady pressure( the penis should always point upwards).Increase your speed untill he is ready to climax; then if you don't want him to ejaculate in your mouth, withdraw the penis and bring him to orgasm with your hand.There are various other alternatives that you can practise when you are getting comfortable.Always remember the scrotum is also quite sensitive so you can use your tongue and mouth there aswell.Hope this will help! Enjoy!
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reader, Miss KK +, writes (11 June 2008):
Hun the secret to good head in my experience is.......... suction its all sucking!!!!. Ask your bf what feels good coz everyone is different and try not to focus on taste! and remember to give good head you dont have to swallow not matter what the fellas say! and you dont have to deep throat to give them pleasure either.Lots of licking is always good and eye contact while your doing it, drives them nuts (literally), suck like you would on a rocket lolly being careful to keep teeth out the way, although some blokes like it. Break up the sucks with lots of sexy licking inbetween, you will soon find out what your bf likes by the moans and groans..........good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): First things first, if you've got a bad gag reflex then oral sex may not be in the cards for you. But if you don't, just use your hand and mouth in a jerking off motion together. He will let you know if it feels right. **Remember you don't HAVE to swallow if you don't like itIf you still don't like it and don't enjoy it then don't do it and don't feel bad about not doing it (who cares what his ex did, he's with you now).He will appreciate the effort from you and should respect you if you decide it's not for you.If he doesn't than that's another issue entirely.Good Luck.
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