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*unigirl53
writes:Hi Im 29 years old. My partner of 7 years is 45.Our sex was great at the beginning but as we got older it started to stop he wouldn't even do foreplay.I cheated on him once and told him i was pregnant with another man's baby. I only did it because i wanted someone to please me and we are still together to this day but I feel i may stray again but I don't want to because I want him to please me because in all the time ive been sexually active which was when i turned 18 he is the only one who has got me to orgasm 3 times in one hit and i loved every moment of it.What should i do?
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reader, Queeny +, writes (12 June 2008):
 Age here is not the problem and the problem here is not that your man doesn't love or care for you. the problem is you.. he is probably not getting interested in your sexual satisfaction becoz you are getting it else where and you even confess that to him. you are the problem here... sort yourself out first.
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (11 June 2008):
 45 is not old and he should have a lot of mileage in him yet. So age isn't really the decisive factor.
The problem is that he's not satisfying you sexually any more. This is something that happens in a lot of relationships, which is why there are so many books and articles about spicing up one's (married) sex life. So instead of having flings and talking about getting pregnant with other men's babies, why don't you do something positive about improving your sex life with him?
As for your fear of having more flings, well, if that's your way of dealing with it then you're not the kind of girlfriend that a lot of men would like to have. It says more about you than about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): Do you love this man?
I mean are you with him for the sex, or for comfort or for love?
It sounds as if he really loves you, even after what you have done in the past, vow, not many guys will put up with that.
I suggest you talk to him, and try and resolve your sexual frustrations.
If there is no way to resolve your problems, or if you are with him for the wrong reasons, move on!
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