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writes:my friends with her second boyfriend now and she is wondering whether she loves him or not coz when she was with her first boyfriend she thought she loved him but then realised she didnt.her boyfriend told her he loves her but she needs help in knowing the signs when u love someone.ie what happens how do u feel e.t.c.please help.thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): I think you just know when you love someone. If you don't see them for a day you miss them, you think about them lots, smile when you see them and they are that one person you can be totally comfortable with. They do little things for you that nobody else can and they always know just what to say. You can just feel it when you look at them that of they were anybody else it just wouldnt be the same.
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reader, mimisoph3  +, writes (11 June 2008):
 It has never happened to you, what is happening to you right now, a strange kind of feeling. You feel like singing, dancing, jumping. You want to keep on dreaming about that someone very special you have just saw or met. And you are totally confused about your behavior. You want to know what it is. Is it just an attraction or love? You have tried reading all the books that are available in the market to clarify your doubt about the difference between love and attraction but still you are equally confused about these terms. Then just read it further to know the seven signs that show you are in love.1. You are looking continuously at him/her without even blinking your eyes. You just do not ready to miss any expression on their faces. HE or she is continuously talking and you are busy listening to each and every word. You are not going to see here and there. Actually when you are with them no one really exists its just only you two. As if your eyes are only made to see him/her.2. You are thinking about him/her continuously. When you are not with him/her then you are busy thinking about the time you spent together. You have started day dreaming about things. You are never alone. When you are eating you think about them. When you are watching TV, you assume you both to do things that the TV characters are doing. Your thoughts are full of him/her.3. You want to be always in the company of him/her. You try to get some reason so that you can call him/her and decide your next meeting. You are trying to follow him/her in each and every place wherever they go. You pretend that you are meeting by luck even if you have planned this meeting. You gather information about there whereabouts from common friends and try to be in their company as much as possible.4. You just want to talk to him/her and be together. When you both are together you don't want anything else. You just want them to talk and be with you. You don't have any other thought at that precise moment. You seem to forget the time and want the time to stop. Even if you were full day in their company you will not find it sufficient when the time to go away from them comes.5. You will do anything to make him/her happy. It has become your duty to make him/her smile. You just can not see them sad. You feel happy to see them happy. You will do anything to make them happy. You will not feel bad even if you will need to do some extra work of theirs. You will find yourself always ready to help them. You will go out of your way to do their work.6. You like everything about him/her. Every person has some negative points but when you love someone then you always find that person without faults. Love is blind and it can not see negative factors of the lovers. You get angry is someone tries to shows you that your lover is not good and all such bad things about him or her. You will like your lover without caring for anyone.7. It is hard for you to say "goodnight" or "goodbye". You feel uneasy. You want to run behind them and hold them. You will have a tough time saying them bye. You will find yourself always saying "I miss you" to them. You will feel very bad to go away from them. Your heart will start beating faster. You want them not to go leaving you alone.i hope i helped..if i did please message me
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