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*han14
writes:Me and my bf have been in a long distance relationship for about a year.Just recently his father decided he doesn't like me and punished my boyfriend off the phone with ME for 2 YEARS. This made me so mad. My boyfriend still sneaks and calls only like 4 times a week and it hurts because it's not how it used to be when we talked for half the day. This is really making me feel upset and like i'm not in a relationship at all. I've talked to him about how i feel but he says it's not his fault because his dad is always around.I don't know what to do anymore and i'm tired of feeling this way.If anyone has advice it would really help.Thank-you for reading.
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reader, Shan14 +, writes (11 June 2008):
Shan14 is verified as being by the original poster of the question No it has nothing to do with the bill...his dad just doesnt like me or approve of me but i don't know why.It was fine 2 months ago then he started to dislike me all of a sudden.We can't email because his dad said it's just another exscuse to talk to me.I'm very frustrated and upset right now.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (11 June 2008):
 Letters and email are a good idea if not
Also as the dad most likely pays the bills he has every right to cut him off when he wants as hes the adult and your bf is the kid. Unfair right! no not really but it does seem that way
Another way to actually talk is for your bf to try and earn some money and buy phone cards to call long distance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): You could try sending each other letters or emails. I know it's not the same as hearing the other persons' voice but it is a way to express your feelings to one another. Plus letters can be saved and reread whenever you want.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (11 June 2008):
 As a parent I think of the practical things, is it possible that he is running up huge phone bills and this is why his father is acting this way. My son did this and it cost us three times as much in one month then we normally pay as he was calling a girl on her cell phone. In uk we have different call costs at different times is it the same where you are?? If so see if he can compromise with his father and just ring when its cheaper and share the costs between you, i.e. you ring him twice a week and he rings you twice. x
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