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writes:I was wondering, guys help me out and women too. What type of body to men like in women? Are there any men out there that are actually chub chasers and they like there women big? Or do men in generally like women tiny skinny, or somewhere in between? I would really like a man's opinion as Iam curious to know, You see i always go out with my two best girlfriends one who is a very big woman and one is really tiny. Im the one that is in between. We all have amazing personalities and pretty faces but we all have trouble meeting men. It just seems to me that men are picky and go for women unattainable. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (11 June 2008):
I like big butts and I cannot lie, you other brothers can't deny, that when a girl walks in with an itty bitty waist and a round thing in your face you get sprung.....
Men are all different, they all like different things. The most important thing is to be the way YOU want to be, so that you FEEL attractive, and then if a guy doesn't like your shape then you'll know he's an idiot anyway.
Stay healthy and at about the right weight for your height (check a medical chart) and you'll know you are not going to get diabetes from being too fat, or die of a heart attack from being too thin. Neither of those is attractive.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, jay27 +, writes (11 June 2008):
I'm a 41-year-old married male who through the years has eyed lots of ladies and who has talked about women a lot with men friends (yes, men do that!). So here goes. First, there are obviously variations in taste. Almost to a man though the preference is for a girl with "some meat on her bones" (a cliche you hear time after time) but of course not obese. This would include large breasts (they do somehow start the juices in a man) and full hips. Besides this there is the important role of (need we say it?) legs.No man can keep his eyes off a shapely pair of legs. Of course there are some grosser things men like to talk about but I will spare you that. So there are no surprises here, and in reference to your question these traits would I think be in the "in-between" category.However, and this is very important. While men's sexual desire may impel them to obsess about these body traits, a man can love a woman who has none of them. Love between man and woman is based on a network of interactons, and after the first encounter other things---personality, sense of humor, loving nature, etc.---will be more important than body characteristics. No person, male or female, must go without love because of physical characteristics. No way!
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reader, lexilou +, writes (11 June 2008):
 Ok Ive been extremely tiny, a UK 6 and also larger at a UK 16 (I think that equates to US 2 and US12) At these weights I often felt over looked but when Ive been in between I did attract men, mostly when I was UK10-12 (US6-8?) I have met men when I was skinny who told me they like women with meat on their bones and when I was larger men who told me they like skinny women. I think a lot of it is down to confidence and self esteem, I had little at my smallest and heaviest due to what was going on in my life at those points.
Hubbie likes me with a bit of meat and although I have gained one dress size since we met (currently UK14) he loves my curves especially as they do at least go in and out in the right places. He has seen pics of me skinny and hopes I never get like that again.
There is someone for everyone and some men dont care about bodies as much as personality anyway so I would stop worrying about it, maybe its where you are going to meet men that is the problem not your bodies which I am sure
are all wonderful x
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