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writes:I've been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months, he was living with an aunt since he moved to the city, he started having issues with her son, and was asked to move out. He would stay in my place once in a while, but ever since he was asked to move out of his old place, he has been staying over my house everyday, its like were "living together"(dont get me wrong I love him)but im not ready to take our relationship to that level. He tells me he wants to get married and have a baby, which i would love to do, just not now, i still want to be with him, But im not ready to have a husband,i dont know what words to use to tell him that he needs to find his own place.Im not good @ expressing my feelings and I sure dont want to hurt his. PLEASE HELP! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): It's vaery simple actually, your boyfriend needs to gaet his lazy ass up and find a place to live it does not matter if its an ugly place, just till he gets more money to get a decent house, Hear me out, this is my suggestion, Tell him he needs to learn to stand on his own feet, you held him enough in your arms now all he needs is to learn to stand. And tell him about you not being ready to get married and have children. He needs to do his part and grow up. Cause in reality, life is not all that happy, but we have to deal with it, it would be bad to have a family, if he wasn't experienced at first hand, how is he going to teach his kids not to be afraid of taking Challenges, if he hasn't taken a big one yet.
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