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writes:Im a 22 female and im seeing this guy who is 23. Long story short......About a month ago i was on myspace and i was looking around tryin to get add more people to my list of friends. I came across this guy. I requested him as a friend and never thought anything of it. He accepted. He emailed me. It was a very nice normal email just saying hi and how the weather was out his way and asked how my side of the us was. He lives in Washington and i live in Pennslyvania. I emailed him back and hit if off really well. I gave him my number a few times after talking online and we started texting. Its been a month and we have been non stop talking. I hate talking on the phone but with him i like need to hear his voice same goes for him. Well about 2 weeks ago he made plans to come here this weekend. I got him talking to my parents and everything. He lost his parents when he was 15 he has 8 brothers and 2 sisters his life story is very very sad and upsetting just to think about. Well after a week and a half of non stop talking he told me didnt know if he should say this and that he was falling for me. I told him i feel the same. We become boyfriend and girlfriend after 2 weeks of talking. We have been non stop talking,texting, talking online and everything. We just cant stop talking. We have talked about futire goals and family goals. We both of the same thinking and there are times were we will finish each anothers sentences. Its freaky how much we are alike and we consider ourselfs soulmates cuz we both have been told what we have is very rare and when you find it its best not to let it go. We both feel that people would kill to have the connection we have. We cant go a day without hearing eachothers voice and we are always missing each another. We want to be together so bad that it torns us apart to be so far away. Im in the process of going to school right now so i know its going to be a few years before i can even move cross the country. We both of said we cant see our lifes without the other one in it. Hes going to be visting every month and once i get my parents approvel ill be able to visit him over in washingtion. Neither on of have felt this way and our feelings are so strong. AND WE HAVE NEVER MET!!!! We feel like we have known each other forever its like finding a long lost friend. We both have had bad relationships and both know what we are looking for in a relationship and we both have what it takes to make our thinking of a perfect relationship to work in both of us. Hes the type of guy who will tell you straight out what he is thinking weather it hurts or not. He was in a relationship with a drama queen and made him pick between her and his family and told her bye. She told him she cheated on him with 3 diff guys. Hes a full time worker and is very commenticed to his company. He def feels a diffence between our relationship and the last and hes never felt this way. He was never a mushy guy and with me its all about making me happy. We both get strong butterflies just talking or anything. We are metting the first time this saturday. My question is has anyone else have had or is in a rare relationship like this and how did it work for you? Thank You
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2012): I've been in a relationship with a guy for almost 15 months now and we've never met. He's in another country and we met on the internet. It gets very difficult at times with the time difference, and I'm trying very hard to make it work and meet him soon. I just hope it works out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2011): Wow I'm really glad i found this (:
I am also in as you said "the same boat" haha
You see for me i met my guy 15 months ago and i swear he is my soul mate i know he is no matter what anyone says.3
He's my bestfriend and is always there when i need him the most. But like you guys we have never met. Its so hard being so far apart i just want to be with him by his side. to be able to be there when he needs me. But we live on opposite sides of the world.
We do talk daily on the phone though and txt each other non stop all day. and have talked on the webcam.
He even sent me a ring and a video proposing saying he wished to marry me 3 I have talked to his mom and dad and sisters on webcam on the phone its i feel like a part of their lives. All thats missing is meeting. which i would personally jump on a plane and be there in a heart beat. but its not that easy due to lack of money ):
But we plan to meet in a few months no more then a year.
I hope my story has a happy ending such as yours. and thats my story (:
i hope all of your relationships stay strong and your all happy and in love 3
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reader, jewel jeon  +, writes (4 March 2011):
ahhh..
i feel really happy for you.
i hope everything goes well! wish you luck!!you and your boyfriend^^
i'm in this kind of relationship now.
he and his friends came to indonesia in 12 january 2011
as an exchange student from Korea. but we have never met before.
i just know his friend.
his friend got into my class
so that i add their facebook.
i got to know him from his friend..hahaha
he got interest in me because i know korean
we became good friend
but i felt something different whenever i am with him
i'm really comfortable whenever i chatted with him.
we got chemistry and we share the same thinking also.
he keep saying that he love me
but i never give a damn,because i thought that he was just playing with me.
but i realize that he is not.
i do not know why i said yes
but i just know that i do love him too
since we are both still in high school we must wait for two years until we graduate and then meet
he seldom online due to his school and his mother doesn't like him to always sit infront of the computer all the time.
same goes to me.
so we must endure it for two freaking yearsTT
but i'm really happy and hope that everything will goes well
when i read about your story i feel really happy..
i hope that my story will end like you
a happy ending story^^
ps:sorry my english isn't really good..
alot of grammatical errorss
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reader, Forever72408 +, writes (6 February 2011):
My boyfriend and I met on may 9th 08 and started dating on july 24th 08.. I was fourteen at the time.. and I'm now Seventeen and we're still together, almost three years and we're still going strong... We never ever met.. But hes my bestfriend and I couldn't even imagine my life without him..We're hopefully going to meet for spring break, and throughout my last year of high school and I'll move down there to be with him in our own little apartment. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2010): I'm in a relationship just like yours and so fare its worked great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): I met my current boyfriend, and eventhough we are young, only 15, and will probably not last forever,the same way. We are meeting in real life for the first time in two months . we do care for each other as much as any "normal" couple, and we find ways around the distance, phone webcam aim etc. I think your relationship will work out if you both put enough effort into it.
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reader, tensplaya4life +, writes (7 May 2010):
WOW this is so like me... im 17 and live in Virginia.. and He just turned 20 and lives in washington also!! we still haven't met yet because my parents wont allow me talking to "some creep" i've never met.. they dont understand but they said once i turn 18 i can do whatever i want.. im going to college up in indiana and he will come down the week of my 18th birthday in septemeber... our relationship is a lot longer than yours tho... it will be 2 years june 28th so i think what we have/had for the longest time is real..i know everything about him and its like we fight but every couple does.. we are literally like a married couple its crazy! we actually met on facebook... and we clicked instantly... i didnt think much of it either but he was determined to have me from the moment he saw a picture of me..so yes im in the same boat as you =]
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reader, managementrocks  +, writes (12 February 2010):
Yes..am in this kinda relationship..and am glad that i found my man dat way...
I really love him for what he is and what he has done to me..soon we are gonna meet up n for sure marry soon...
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reader, chelseyfo7 +, writes (13 June 2009):
I'm actually in a relationship like this right now,
except he lives in a different country, it's unreal, and amazing. He's coming to the US in about a year, I'm so excited. So, I'm not so sure how this will turn out but hopefully it's good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2008): I think if you accept that our exterior image is based on who we are on the inside, and that you fall inlove with someone because you realize at a deep level that that person is right for you the only difference between falling inlove in person and falling in love talking on the internet should be the time needed. If meeting in person you transmit tons of information by how you look, how you move, maybe some extra-sensory perception, how you talk, how you behave, etc, etc and this can lead even to love at first site, in chat its all about what you say, how onest and how complete so if both parties describe themselves as good as they can, in time the result should be the same .... of course the amount of time untill it could happen will differ but the level of knowledge about the other person will compensate ..... am i right?
In short what im trying to say is.
love online takes time, as love at first sight in person takes only a second!
ahhh....life is such a beautiful thing...good luck everyone!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2008): I think if you accept that our exterior image is based on who we are on the inside, and that you fall inlove with someone because you realize at a deep level that that person is right for you the only difference between falling inlove in person and falling in love talking on the internet should be the time needed. If meeting in person you transmit tons of information by how you look, how you move, maybe some extra-sensory perception, how you talk, how you behave, etc, etc and this can lead even to love at first site, in chat its all about what you say, how onest and how complete so if both parties describe themselves as good as they can, in time the result should be the same .... of course the amount of time untill it could happen will differ but the level of knowledge about the other person will compensate ..... am i right?
In short what im trying to say is.
love online takes time, as love at first sight in person takes only a second!
ahhh....life is such a beautiful thing...good luck everyone!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2008): I am going through this now, haven't met her yet.. its been 4 years we been talking everyday...myspace, MSN AND PHONE etc .. most intense thing iv ever been in.. we both fallin in love with each other... iv gone out with alot of girls in person.. but this..nothing like this...iv never been through anything like this.. this is so different and so intense i cant explain it.. theres something there that is beyond words... and i know it sounds crazy! im glad that there was people in the same boat as me otherwise i prob would go crazy lol and yea the compatibility thing in person is worrying me, just like it would to worry anyone else, i just hope its there.. i know it has to be.. best of luck with every1 going through the same situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2008): omgoodness. i am in the same boat. we are older, but WOW. this is intense---as intense as any relationship i have ever been in. my greatest concern when we meet is that there will not be the compatibility we have found through e-mails and video chats and such. we are still in the first months of our "friendship", but again---this is intense.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): well hun yeah i know exactly what ur feeling..i was in this same situation about a year ago..we met through facebook..anyways it started off the same way as yours and things were going great..we would talk for hours and hours together and one fine day he said he loves me and had never felt this way in a while and i felt the same for him..he would cry if i ever fought with him..anyways after that we met and things went well but later after a few months it was a total disaster..i dint have the time if i wouldnt answer his calls he would be mad,i felt that he has been calling me less and all shit..anyways we broke up and i don talk to him anymore probably once in 5 months or something..but hun i really hope things work out for u..all the best!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): I have dealt with many people in similar situations.
I am very happy for you and hopes all is fine and well.
I must warn you however, I am aware of many people who have been very dissapointed once they have meet there online lovers in person. They "mystique" dissapears, the face to face reality....
Sometimes there is no chiemistry and a lack of compatibility.
I hope for you that yours will be one of the great success stories, however....if not....remember....you can contact me!
Have fun, best of wishes!
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