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writes:Question for those that have broken up and gotten back together with their significant others:How long after the breakup did either you or your partner try to get back together with you? Or even if you didnt get back together, but either one of you tried, how long did they wait?
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reader, les +, writes (12 June 2008):
les is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your responses.
Thanks for your responses. Similar to the last poster, we (I initiated) because he was basically scared. Even after I tried very hard to reassure him of my affection but to no avail so I've decided to let him go and solve his own problems.
I still believe that he will overcome his fear because I know that he truly loves me deep down inside, even if he's completely blocked that out of his mind, and was just wondering how long it took other people to realize that they needed someone back in their lives.
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reader, :):):)  +, writes (11 June 2008):
I got back with my partner after six months. We originally split up because he was scared of settling down and then he realised he wanted more with me.
We've split up once again but thats due to me moving away. If I wasnt then we'd still be together.
If you want to get back with someone, go for it. Leaving it a while may mean they may move on completely.
Good luck
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reader, Advisor-Amber +, writes (11 June 2008):
well dear its not about how long its been for other people, it matters on you on him and how strong the reltionship was and right now how both of your energys are. you need to ask yourself if that person loved you and you really loved him that what was the problem in the first place then take it from there i am a spitiual advisor and have been for over 6 years please email me i would like to guide you through this[personal email removed by moderator per guidelines]
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reader, batfink +, writes (11 June 2008):
It really depends upon what has happened to break you up in the first place and whether you want to get back together. For many people moving on is difficult, especially when they still have feelings for their ex and for many of those people moving on is for the best as there is usually a good reason why people break up. personally speaking I have gone back to a significant person in the past after a break down. We made sure that we talked about the reason it broke down in the first place, without trying to apportion blame, in a neutral setting when we were both ready to talk to each other. Taling to friends you trust helps and getting impartial advice of the kind you get on here will also help. However, in order for anyone to really help you they will need to know more about the relationship and why it broke up in the first place.I hope things work out for you either way and we're all here for you if you need to talk.BF x
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