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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: ok i have been going out with thi boy for 2 months now, hes quite cool and i nearly said no. when we started going out i had regrets, but then later i got into it, ive recently went to germany with some cool guys from my school, they were so funny and i was attracted to most of them,i feel really mean about it thought to my boyfriend, im having regrets and i just don't want a boyfriend anymore, i need my freedom, what should i do? how should i dump him? or is this not a good reason please reply im desperate! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, neonpinkngooey +, writes (12 June 2008):
Hi! If you don't want a boyfriend anymore, you should tell him just that. Needing freedom to see other people is a good enough reason to break up with someone... I know that if I were in his shoes, I would want to know the truth. I don't think you should come up with an excuse, or a lie. Just make sure you let him down easy. Let him know that he didn't do anything to chase you away, and that you realized that a relationship isn't the right place for you at this point in time. Good luck!
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reader, agentorange +, writes (12 June 2008):
Dude, you can't force love. It's not fair to your bf. Are you just with him because you want a bf? Think about it. Dump him if you aren't totally into him. You have only been dating for 2 months. At this stage in the relationship you should be way into your bf. It might suck for a month or two, but in the end you'll feel way better about it!
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