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I've been having problems with sex and masturbation!

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Question - (11 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello,

Ive been having a few problems with sex and masturbation all my life.

When having sex with my long term boyfriend i never seem to have any sexual response at all except for getting wet, If i told him this id completely kill him as he suffers from depression, so have been faking for some time now

I cannot masturbate to orgasm either, have tried for years in so many dif positions and with dif toys and techniques, my clit gets way to sensitive to touch and i have to stop without building myself up at all

Was just wondering if anyone has a similar experience, and if theres any tips people can give me

Thanks x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008):

We are all different but there is certain basic guideline that could be of assistance to you. I suggest you get a good sex book or you can email me for more information,

Best of luck!

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (11 June 2008):

This is such a common problem. Most women dont orgasm through penetration alone. And clitoral stimulation can often become 'too intense.'

Try new positions, going on top will give you more control and you can see wht you like and what you don't.

You may want to try using a sex toy also as then you will get a general idea of whats right for you.

xxx

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