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writes:I recently found out the man I have been seeing for the past 4 years has been talking to a married woman with 2 children the entire time. He met her right after we met.I talked to her and she said she would ask questions about me but he would never give her a complete answer and that he was lying to both of us.She now knows the truth and still continues to go out of her way to call his cell phone and keep in contact with him and him with her.He says they are just friends and no longer see each other.Why do women give a man a second look when they find out the man is involved in a relationship? Women like this female do nothing but empower men to cheat. They must believe it is ok if the other woman does not care that he is involved.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): Seriously, maybe they are friends. He's not willing to stop speaking to her. He's known her just as long as he's known you. Why are you placing the blame on her? Maybe you should be blaming him. She's not getting in the way. If he doesn't want to give her friendship up, and you have a problem with that, that is between you and him. If they are just friends now and that's something you can't handle maybe you should think long and hard if you want to stay with him.
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (11 June 2008):
 Because some people either dont give a damn if the other person is in a relationship or just want what they cant have. The best way to attract a women is to already have one!!! But as smiles says, it takes two and he didnt have to act on it did he??!! If I had acted on every chat up/interest Ive received Id have cheated many many many many many times, I chose not to x
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (11 June 2008):
 Simple, if they dismissed him at first glance they might think "well if another woman is putting up with him, he must have something".
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): I want to remind you about something:
IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO!!!!
Stop being blind, wake up, open your eyes!
This is a mutual communication you are refering to.....why did he not stop all contact? Have you asked him?
Maybe they are just good friends, do you have any reason to believe different?
But why blame the woman, what did she do wrong....
Ask him......he is the one to explain to you!
Good luck!
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