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writes:Okay my ex boyfriend passed away sometime back and after a long time I've found myself actually feeling something for someone else.. This guy is 5 years younger than me.. He's really nice to me every now and then but most often he behaves like he doesn't really give a damn.. We've made out a few times and he's really nice to me before we do stuff.. But the next day he's just cold.. Is he using me because he's an 18 year old horny guy or does he really like me..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): Hmm.. Thanks a lot guys.. He started dating a good friend of mine last week, but I moved on by then thanks to your answers so it doesn't matter :)
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reader, Relatefull :).  +, writes (13 June 2008):
Well this guy seems to be Perfect to get what he wants basicly hes playin games with your mind iv been in this situation so i can relate to this...You need to get a back bone and tell him straight that its over, at first you may feel like u regret it but thats because you do like him... Dont worry concentrate on your friends they'll help you get over him... And dont run back because you'll find yourself in the same situation x
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (11 June 2008):
 Hi Hunny
To be truthfull It sounds as if he is enjoying the making out side of things sweetheart, He could also like you very much, At 18yrs old alot of young men can be all over the place when it comes to commiting to one person. (Im not saying all young men of that age before I get hate mail) But being a mother of one Ive seen quite enough in the last year to understand that its a difficult time in life and very confusing some times...After what you have been through with the loss of your b/f and now your able to start to feel again I would say just be carefull how you open yourself up as Ive also lost a partner and during the time of grieving, Then finding someone that cared for me wasnt very long..It was nice to be cared for as I needed that feeling of being held, But at times my heart and head have been all over the place. So take things slow hunny if you are happy with the situation then thats fine but if in anyway this is upsetting you and all you need is love then wait untill that special person comes into your life that will show you the feelings that you truely deserve TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE AND HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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